Written in Jumada Akhirah 1444H i.e. January 2023 | Last updated 19 Feb 2023 at 03:30am AEST (GMT+10)
بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحمَانِ الرَّحِيمِ
Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Raheem
1 to 10: Faraid (Obligations) P1of2
- Live entire life with Tawhid {including Ikhlas} – The Foundation of our lives!
- Have Taqwa (Piety): preferably every moment and in every thought, words and actions – It is the Key to treasures of Dunya & Aakhirah!
- Seek Knowledge of Islam: of all its Obligations & of Optional matters.
- Pray Friday Prayer
- Pray 5 Times a Day Fard (Obligatory) Prayers
- Fast the month of Ramadan
- Give Zakat to the people as prescribed in the Qur’an
- Perform Hajj upon having the means
- Be Good and dutiful to Parents.
- Enjoin Good & Forbid Wrong
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11 to 20: Faraid (Obligations) P2of2
- Understand & Live Whole Life according to Sound and Correct Islamic Beliefs and outlook on life.
- Strive in Path of Allah in Doing Obligations and then in Extras.
- Cover the Awrah; guard the gaze and the private parts; dress respectfully and modestly; live a life of integrity with dignity and avoid suspicious behaviour.
- Be Truthful & Honest
- Be Just
- Maintain Good Blood Relationships
- Do Dua, Salat, Istighfar & Tawbah - Dua for ourselves, Dua of Salat and Salam upon the Prophet Muhammed (ص); dua for ourselves with frequent istighfar and Tawbah; dua for guidance/reform of our Muslim rulers, and dua for the whole Ummah.
- Sincerity towards the Qur’an: Recite Qur'an; Learn and Reflect on its message; & Follow Its Teachings
- Discharge Trusts Including Distributing Inheritance Islamically, Fulfilling our Duties Towards Others as their Parents, Spouse, Relatives, Neighbours, Muslim Brothers/Sisters and Citizens
- Fulfil halal promises and oaths.
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21 to 30: Recommended Rites of Worship
- Pray Fard in its Earliest Time
- Perform Sunnah Raatibah and Witr.
- Praying and worshipping as the Prophet Prayed by following his Words and Actions, and emulating his Khushu.
- Perform Qiyamulayl (Night Prayer): such as Tahajjud prayer after sleep, and the nightly Taraweeh prayers in Ramadan.
- Perform other Recommended Prayers: such as Duha, prayer for rain, at eclipse.
- Keep extra fasts: 3 days monthly; Monday & Thursdays weekly; and Sunnah fasts recommended for various occasions such as Arafah, six of Shawwal and Ashura.
- Give extra charity beyond Zakat to poor, needy, and in other causes of Allah.
- Perform extra Hajj and Umrah.
- Memorizing the whole Quran or parts of it.
- Tilawat of Qur’an with Tajweed, Tadabbur (Reflection) and Implementation: i.e., Reciting Quran with Tajweed and beautifying our recitation AND Learning, reflecting on the message of the Qur'an and the hadith and implementing it in our lives.
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31 to 40: Recommended Islamic Way of Life
- Quranic character: Deal with Ourselves and Others with Islamic Character from the Quran, Like that of the Noble Prophet (s.a.w)
- Zuhd (Ascetism) and simple living without indulgence in worldly pleasures.
- Eat few morsels; if more, then a third each for food, drink and air.
- Self-scrutiny: Taking account of our own actions to improve.
- Visiting Graves, Funerals and Condolensce: Visit Graves to remind of nature of dunya, of death and of Aakhirah; attend Funeral prayer and follow a funeral till burial. Give condolence to the grieving as the Prophet (s.a.w) did. Do not speak ill of a deceased except in case of a oppressor/tyrant (such as the Pharaoh) to show the truth to the people.
- Excelling (Ihsan) in Discharging Duties & Responsibilities: Ihsan (excellence) by doing everything as though we are seeing Allah via His Beautiful Names and Lofty Attributes and being conscious that He is watching us; excelling (ihsan) in fulfilling duties towards parents, spouse, children, blood relations, neighbours, brothers in Islam, and to all creatures humans, animals and inanimate objects of Allah’s creation.
- Using Right Hands, Cleanliness and Hygiene: Give, take and start with right hands; frequent teeth brushing with Miswak or the like of it; Ghusl (showering the body); wear clean clothes; perfume in halal manner; doing acts of clean fitrah (nature) as per hadith; use right hands for touching clean and left hand for cleaning dirty things; cleaning our hands, ...
- Do dua and Dhikr shown by the Prophet (s.a.w) for various occasions: such as when Prophets name is mentioned (ص), going to sleep, waking, morning, evening, eating, drinking, sneezing, boarding a vehicle, travelling, relations with spouse, entering and leaving Masjids, home and toilets. Also istikhara after consultation when making complicated decisions
- Shura (Consultation): Conducting affairs by consulting people. Then consult & rely on Allah with dua istikhara.
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41 to 50: Social Life with Others
- Being Pleasant to Others: Meeting a brother with a pleasant face; initiate greeting; reply with better greeting; give gifts; give food, especially at Iftar; accept invitations.
- Marriage & Parenthood: Marrying early, marrying for piety before all else; having many children and doing good Tarbiyah of children.
- Making our Close Friendships and Relationships on Basis of Love of Allah and Piety.
- Engaging with People in Doing Good While Bearing their Ignorant Behaviour Patiently
- Live Life of Dignity & Integrity and Avoid bringing Suspicion of Sinfulness.
- Leader: Being Pious, Just & Kind Leader to Our Flock be it Family, Employees and Servants: ie Be pious and make decisions based on piety as per Allah’s guidance; do not overburden the rest of the team members; be fair, just and neither unjust nor oppressive; consult them; be kind, considerate, etc.
- Subjects: Be Sincere Muslim Subject towards Our Leaders: honest, obedient and compliant in relevant matters, respectful, promoting cohesion and not division, etc.
- Have Each Other’s Back Covered: Be Trustworthy and do not backbite, slander, carry tales nor divulge secrets of others.
- Debts: When loaning to others, make it easy for them; and when returning a debt, earnestly strive to repay debts faithfully and good to return it better.
- Being Generous to All and Hospitable to Guests: Be generous to guests within one’s own means and avoid spending excessively (israaf).
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51 to 60: More about Character with People
- Stand for truth, justice and piety with firmness. Do not run away from a rightful battle except to something rightfully more deserving; and do not desert our brothers.
- The best believer is the most beneficial and helpful to others.
- Safeguard our tongue and private parts.
- Be respectful firstly of Islamic Scholars; next of elders honouring them. And be kind merciful to the young and those weaker than us.
- Use dignified speech and not foul mouthed.
- Help the oppressed by helping; and the oppressor by trying to stop him from it; stand with the rightful in justice against the unjust; and make peace between brothers.
- Deliberate carefully on actions prior to doing them and do not hasten; and if wrong was done, then seek forgiveness of Allah and then of people.
- Remove harm from pathways.
- Pray to Allah to beautify our character with everyone as He beautified our creation.
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61 to 70: Transactions with People & With Allah
- Earn income only in halal manner and keep away from haram means of income or spending.
- Conducting financial transactions in permissible manner. Be transparent, honest and upfront. Do not conceal nor cheat.
- Giving true witness testimony.
- Praise and thank Allah by saying Alhamdulillah (Praise and thanks to Allah), with obedience and by other means of thankfulness.
- Thank whoever helps us with verbal thanks and return a good with good.
- Be Humble, Not Arrogant; Be Forbearing, Tolerant and Forgiving; Be Close to people; think well & not with suspicions; be of easy-going demeanour without holding hold grudges.
- Say bismillah at start and Be regular in good deeds with balance, moderation and without excesses or crossing the limits of halal.
- When yawning, cover the mouth with hand do not make noise.
- Praise Allah when sneeze with ‘Alhamdulillah’ (Praise and thanks is for Allah), reply to the other’s sneeze with ‘Yarhamukallah’ (May Allah show you mercy); and reply to that with ‘Yahdeekumullahu wa yuslihu baalakum’.
- Better to drink while seated and eat while stationery.
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